One thing I did last weekend that was unusual was going to the mall and movies with my boyfriend. I say it is unusual because normally me and my boyfriend just sit in my house all weekend. Which is fine with me, but I like to be able to get out of my house every once in awhile. It was nice to get away from my family for once because I am ALWAYS around them. My brother tried going with us but i had to put a stop to that. We first went to the mall so my boyfriend could go Christmas shopping for me. So i already know what he bought me, but I do not mind I guess, because I gotta make sure he gets the right stuff. After he was done shopping, we went to the movies to watch Catching Fire. Which was a good movie, other than how it ended. So next year, my boyfriend plans on going to the midnight premiere to see the next movie in the Hunger Games series.
Friday, November 29, 2013
Friday, November 22, 2013
One Thing I Would Change
If I could change one thing in the world, I would change who my my "dad" is. I would rather have my step-dad as my real dad. I would because my real "father" (I call him sperm donor) does not care about me whatsoever. He has never made any effort to try to contact me, though I have tried to contact him. My mom used to bowl in the same leauge as him on Saturday, so I used to see him every Saturday. I have tried to talk to him, but he just ignores me. he acts like I am invisible, and does not even acknowledge that I am his child, he called me "it" in court. What a great "father", right? He made a promise to my mom that he would talk to us about starting to see me, but he has yet to fulfill that promise. I have never actually met him, nor do I plan to anymore.
I would much rather my biological dad be my step-dad, the man I consider my father. He has been here for me as a father figure since he started seeing my mom. He does not look at me as just his step-daughter, he considers me his real daughter. He is there for me and helps provide for me, like a real father should.